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A good female friend of mine asked me to shoot her and her girlfriend fooling around as a stunt for the Internet. I used to date this girl and my current girl friend is worried that I may be seduced into joining. The thing is, she might be right. Do I steer clear or make my directorial debut?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:38:34 +0000

It seems to me that a stunt for the Internet is a stunt for the Internet and a ménage a trios is a ménage a trios. Meaning: it may well be wishful thinking on your part that they’d let you in on the action and that you’ll be dropping the camera and partaking yourself.

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How can I get my girlfriend to initiate sex?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:37:40 +0000

As I see it, you can take one of two routes: the passive or the active one. The passive one – which I can tell you right now you’re not going to like – means not initiating sex at all anymore; over time, eventually, she’ll make a move or at least ask what’s up and you can tell her you’ve been waiting for her to take action.

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My girlfriend had a dream about having sex with another woman – Does that mean she is gay or bisexual?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:36:23 +0000

I hate to disappoint you but I’m afraid not. I’ve dreamt about having sex with another woman — as have most of the straight women I know who are honest – and I’m very straight.

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An ex girlfriend of mine has been communicating with me through Facebook. It started out as friendly but recently the conversations have turned a bit salacious. Am I being unfaithful to my current girlfriend if I respond?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:34:12 +0000

Whether it’s on Facebook, Twitter or through Morse Code, salacious emailing with your ex is salacious emailing with your ex.

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When I’m drunk, I want to bring another woman into the picture but once I’m sober, I’m relieved I haven’t. I’m about to start a program to help me with my drinking problem but I’m afraid these issues will continue. Any advice?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:31:59 +0000

Well, if you know that you have a drinking problem, let’s deal with that first and the ménage fantasies second. One of the best ways to test whether or not you need to cut out drinking and clean up your life is to consider if alcohol has made your life unmanageable.

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I’ve been with my girlfriend for seven years now. Is there any truth to the Seven-Year Itch? If so, what can I do to prevent her from having a wandering eye?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:29:41 +0000

I say there’s truth to anything you choose to believe. Meaning: if you hear and think that after seven years, something will happen to your girlfriend that will cause her you to want to cheat on you or leave, then you can absolutely manifest that reality.

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I want to tell my girlfriend how to kiss me the way I like it but I’m worried she’ll be offended or hurt to find out she’s not doing it perfectly already. Do girls get upset about things like that?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:26:48 +0000

Depends on how you tell her. With kissing, there’s always the “show, don’t tell” move where you simply open your mouth more, use your tongue less or do whatever else it is you want her to be doing.

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I want to know how to cheat! I am crazy about the girl I’m with, but how is it possible to be faithful in college? Seriously I’ve tried! Am I just another jerk? Or is it normal to want to have fun, but not lose the girl you’re truly mad over?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:25:55 +0000

I wouldn’t worry so much about whether or not it’s normal to want to be faithful in college or not and listen to what YOU want. To some people, being utterly devoted to their grade school girlfriend well into their adult years makes sense.

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My ex and I broke up over two years ago. What advice do you have for someone who has loved and lost and wants to love again but still suffers from a broken heart?

anna — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 20:52:15 +0000

You say you still suffer from a broken heart.

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My girlfriend of about 5 months has apparently been arranging situations in which other women have accidentally walked in or witnessed us while she is performing oral sex on me. This has happened 4 times now since we have been dating. I am a little wary of confronting her with these accusations. What do you feel is best approach to dealing with something like this?

anna — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 20:42:37 +0000

I have to say, it’s hard to tell from what you explain here your girlfriend’s exact motives.

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