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A good female friend of mine asked me to shoot her and her girlfriend fooling around as a stunt for the Internet. I used to date this girl and my current girl friend is worried that I may be seduced into joining. The thing is, she might be right. Do I steer clear or make my directorial debut?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:38:34 +0000

It seems to me that a stunt for the Internet is a stunt for the Internet and a ménage a trios is a ménage a trios. Meaning: it may well be wishful thinking on your part that they’d let you in on the action and that you’ll be dropping the camera and partaking yourself.

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How can I get my girlfriend to initiate sex?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:37:40 +0000

As I see it, you can take one of two routes: the passive or the active one. The passive one – which I can tell you right now you’re not going to like – means not initiating sex at all anymore; over time, eventually, she’ll make a move or at least ask what’s up and you can tell her you’ve been waiting for her to take action.

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I’m in my early twenties and have a healthy sex drive. How can I keep this up as I get older?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:37:02 +0000

Men lose testosterone at 10% a decade after the age of 30 so you’ve still got plenty of good years in you.

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My girlfriend had a dream about having sex with another woman – Does that mean she is gay or bisexual?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:36:23 +0000

I hate to disappoint you but I’m afraid not. I’ve dreamt about having sex with another woman — as have most of the straight women I know who are honest – and I’m very straight.

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I’m on medication which lowers my sex drive – Is there anything I can do to get it back to normal without stopping my meds?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:35:40 +0000

Yes. First, remember that the mind is our most powerful sex tool and the more you tell yourself that your medication lowers your sex drive, the more accurate this statement becomes.

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I have a scar on the tip of my penis from a mole I recently had removed and I’m nervous about addressing this with a girl I’m now seeing. How do I break the ice on this story?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:34:52 +0000

I think you need to see that you’re being a little silly here and feeling nervous about something you in no way need to.

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I’ve gotten hooked into acting out and looking at bondage, up-skirt pictures and just recently glue pictures and files on YouTube and yahoo groups. Can this turn into a problem if it isn’t already?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:33:26 +0000

If you’re asking if it’s a problem, chances are some instinct in you already believes that it is. Because it really isn’t about whether or not society says it’s a problem – it’s whether or not it’s a problem for you.

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I have low risk HPV. Since the girl who gave it to me, all of my relationships have failed because of it. I have dated all different types of people, and all break it off within a week or two of me telling them.

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:32:45 +0000

Let me unequivocally assure you that you are making far too big a deal about your HPV status. HPV is so common that having it is considered normal: one in four people have it and rest assured it’s not destroying their relationships.

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When I’m drunk, I want to bring another woman into the picture but once I’m sober, I’m relieved I haven’t. I’m about to start a program to help me with my drinking problem but I’m afraid these issues will continue. Any advice?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:31:59 +0000

Well, if you know that you have a drinking problem, let’s deal with that first and the ménage fantasies second. One of the best ways to test whether or not you need to cut out drinking and clean up your life is to consider if alcohol has made your life unmanageable.

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When my girlfriend begins to perform oral sex on me, I tend to get irritated to the point that I don’t enjoy the oral sex at all. I have been like this as long as I can remember, no matter the partner. Yes I have got off multiple times, but they weren’t enjoyable. Is there a way I can learn to enjoy it?

annadavid — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:31:02 +0000

If you don’t like oral sex, there’s absolutely no reason that you should have to experience it. While this may be unusual, you shouldn’t feel any shame or discomfort for it.

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