When my girlfriend begins to perform oral sex on me, I tend to get irritated to the point that I don’t enjoy the oral sex at all. I have been like this as long as I can remember, no matter the partner. Yes I have got off multiple times, but they weren’t enjoyable. Is there a way I can learn to enjoy it?

September 28, 2009

If you don’t like oral sex, there’s absolutely no reason that you should have to experience it. While this may be unusual, you shouldn’t feel any shame or discomfort for it.

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I’ve been with my girlfriend for seven years now. Is there any truth to the Seven-Year Itch? If so, what can I do to prevent her from having a wandering eye?

September 28, 2009

I say there’s truth to anything you choose to believe. Meaning: if you hear and think that after seven years, something will happen to your girlfriend that will cause her you to want to cheat on you or leave, then you can absolutely manifest that reality.
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The girl I’m dating is making me wait to have sex. She thinks it will mean more if we wait longer. How do you know when it’s the right time to have sex?

September 28, 2009

There is no standard “right” time. For some people, it’s the first night they meet; for others, it’s a year into their relationship.

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I want to tell my girlfriend how to kiss me the way I like it but I’m worried she’ll be offended or hurt to find out she’s not doing it perfectly already. Do girls get upset about things like that?

September 28, 2009

Depends on how you tell her. With kissing, there’s always the “show, don’t tell” move where you simply open your mouth more, use your tongue less or do whatever else it is you want her to be doing.

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I want to know how to cheat! I am crazy about the girl I’m with, but how is it possible to be faithful in college? Seriously I’ve tried! Am I just another jerk? Or is it normal to want to have fun, but not lose the girl you’re truly mad over?

September 28, 2009

I wouldn’t worry so much about whether or not it’s normal to want to be faithful in college or not and listen to what YOU want. To some people, being utterly devoted to their grade school girlfriend well into their adult years makes sense.
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I’m doing the online dating thing and am usually dating several girls at one time. I’m having trouble keeping track of them and the things I’ve learned about each. Any tips for dating more than one at a time?

August 9, 2009

Since there’s no law, essentially, that says you can’t do either, I’d suggest erring on the side of caution when it comes to asking the women about their lives.

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One night I hooked up with a good friend of mine and when I looked up at her face, she was smiling and giggling and it weirded me out. I haven’t talked to her since, should I be so concerned?

August 9, 2009

It’s hard to know what you should or shouldn’t be concerned about without a few more details but it certainly doesn’t sound like she did anything that should weird you out.

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I’ve literally never been on a date. What do I need to know before asking out this girl I like? Should I talk to her and find out what she likes or just make the plans?

August 9, 2009

There’s no standard protocol that’s the same for every last date because we’re all unique, at various stages in our lives and in places where the rules are different from the next place.

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My ex and I broke up over two years ago. What advice do you have for someone who has loved and lost and wants to love again but still suffers from a broken heart?

August 9, 2009

You say you still suffer from a broken heart.

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I want to go to the Bunny Ranch in Nevada so I can lose my virginity. Does this make me a loser?

August 9, 2009

It doesn’t make you a loser, but just remember that you’re never going to be able to lose your virginity again, so you’ll always look back and know that you lost it with a girl at the bunny ranch.

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